Man and women ultimately want the same thing – to love and be loved.
We are made from the same stuff whatever it is that you have as a gender.
We H A V E a GENDER.
We are NOT the gender.
Love and be loved is the essential driving force for all.
Some are better at it than others.
But, if you want to love and be loved…….
………you have to dive deep and go waaaaaaaayyyyyyy beyond just the surface.
On the surface – when not fully tuned in – you will see differences.
In the depths – when fully tuned in – you will find common ground.
That’s the only way.
Love only sees common ground.
The ego sees the differences, the details, and worries about them.
Love doesn’t fuss over details.
It is more of a:
W H A T E V E R.
Because the main ingredient is there.
The main course is there.
Whatever else is required, is a bonus, and not worth loosing your sleep over.
Or your calm.
Or your peace.
Today I was reminded of……..
…….the elements that make it all work.
In love relationship, in sexuality, in life.
If these are absent, nothing will work.
And these are……..
YOU REALLY WANT THIS
YOU SHOW UP FULLY
YOU DO LOVE – GIVE AND RECEIVE
These are the main ingredients.
They can be applied to anything you want to grow and flourish in your life.
And that’s the truth.
I might – no – I will write more about this and expand on it more.
But for now………
………this is something to get tickled by,
to sit with,
to feel into,
Who knows where it will take you!
Lots of L O V E,
V I O L E T.
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